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okay so here is my problem. its realy long, but i need advice.
ive been dating this boy Jon for 2 years. weve been through everything, blah blah, the whole nine. im not saying were gonna be together forever and all that mushy lovey crap, but its unlikely were going to break up anytime soon.
so, when i first started dating this kid, he was friends with this girl Jen. and i knew they were friends but i wasnt really worried.then i found out he was always at her house after school and in her pool with her untill like 11 at night. and he would never text me during these times. so i got wicked mad and was going to break up with him but he promised he would stop going and talking to her etc.
well he lied. and then jen started going out with jons best friend, jason. soooo jon was always at jens house, saying that "jason was there so it was okay".& he would always be texting her and she would tell him all of her problems and go to him for anything and he would always be there for her, but not for me, if i was eever upset, he would tell me to get over it, well anyways it took me the whole first year of our relationship to get him to cut the crap. idk why i stayed with hm but i did,
sooo a few months later i ended up being friends with this boy Lucas. we were just friends, nothing big, but Jon got extremely mad and was threatening to leave me and accused me of loving Lucas and saying i should go f*** him and he doesnt care. i never even spoke to lucas in person. he texted me like once a day for like half an hour, NOTHING compared to him & jens thing.
well that all got dealt with and cleared up, and now months later, jenis starting rumors that i am talkking to lucas again and that i like him and im sneaking around with him and stuff, which im not, jon said he believed me and he knew i wasnt because weve been together everyday after school. and when i go home we webcam each other. so jon would have saw me.
i told him that jen was in love with him (she constantly stares at him at school and laughs at everythning he says and is always talking about him) and just trying to ruin us .
jon then told me that im weak and not gonna do anything about it and shes gonna spread more rumors and that im overreacting.
what do i do? is he sticking up for jen? do i say anything to her? gahhh im so confused. its ridiculous.
jason&jen broke up a while ago. and of course jon got pissed at jason HIS BEST FRIEND for that.
jon claims he doesnt speak/associate with jen anymore and hasnt in months.
soo suspicious. i wouldnt put it past them to have an affair since jons lied to me before, but . idk.
forgot to mention, jen is dating MY ex, and cheating on him with jason. so this whole thing is a complete circle.
ive been dating this boy Jon for 2 years. weve been through everything, blah blah, the whole nine. im not saying were gonna be together forever and all that mushy lovey crap, but its unlikely were going to break up anytime soon.
so, when i first started dating this kid, he was friends with this girl Jen. and i knew they were friends but i wasnt really worried.then i found out he was always at her house after school and in her pool with her untill like 11 at night. and he would never text me during these times. so i got wicked mad and was going to break up with him but he promised he would stop going and talking to her etc.
well he lied. and then jen started going out with jons best friend, jason. soooo jon was always at jens house, saying that "jason was there so it was okay".& he would always be texting her and she would tell him all of her problems and go to him for anything and he would always be there for her, but not for me, if i was eever upset, he would tell me to get over it, well anyways it took me the whole first year of our relationship to get him to cut the crap. idk why i stayed with hm but i did,
sooo a few months later i ended up being friends with this boy Lucas. we were just friends, nothing big, but Jon got extremely mad and was threatening to leave me and accused me of loving Lucas and saying i should go f*** him and he doesnt care. i never even spoke to lucas in person. he texted me like once a day for like half an hour, NOTHING compared to him & jens thing.
well that all got dealt with and cleared up, and now months later, jenis starting rumors that i am talkking to lucas again and that i like him and im sneaking around with him and stuff, which im not, jon said he believed me and he knew i wasnt because weve been together everyday after school. and when i go home we webcam each other. so jon would have saw me.
i told him that jen was in love with him (she constantly stares at him at school and laughs at everythning he says and is always talking about him) and just trying to ruin us .
jon then told me that im weak and not gonna do anything about it and shes gonna spread more rumors and that im overreacting.
what do i do? is he sticking up for jen? do i say anything to her? gahhh im so confused. its ridiculous.
jason&jen broke up a while ago. and of course jon got pissed at jason HIS BEST FRIEND for that.
jon claims he doesnt speak/associate with jen anymore and hasnt in months.
soo suspicious. i wouldnt put it past them to have an affair since jons lied to me before, but . idk.
forgot to mention, jen is dating MY ex, and cheating on him with jason. so this whole thing is a complete circle.