Stupid Ass Boyfriend

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Lasantha

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yep..pissed off right now. stupid ass boyfriends SUCK DICK!! my boyfriend has been hanging out w/ his best friend instead of me for like..well..this whole week actually..i don't know what to do..any suggestions?
 
What's so bad about him hanging out with his friends? Why don't you just call him and ask if he wants to hang out?

Guys like to have time to hang out with their friends sometimes. Don't make things worse by being overbearing, or needy.
 
Ashlee, do you have any friends? If so, they would probably love for you to hang out with them. Remember, there's a difference between good relationship and codependance. A man must have time with his friends. It's part of the nature of men.
 
ya...we live together. the point WAS i think he's getting tired of hanging out with me-period. I tried 2 call him..he didn't answer. I NEVER interfere with his plans...but i haven't even SEEn him (besides in the mornings when I leave for beauty school..and he's asleep) He always seems to wait to come home when i'm asleep..which is like, 2:00 am. We've been together almost 10 months in a relationship...and have known each other for over 2 years. Everything used to be so perfect..you know? then..this. I'm crushed. :sad:
 
[offtopic] when the fuck did you become a mod? Shit... this place is starting to feel like Big Brother, and I feel like Winston [/offtopic]

I gotta tell ya, ashley, i fucked up my last relationship the same way. Never called, never showed much interest in my girlfriend other than for sex.. if i were you, and if you really loved this guy, tell him how you feel, outright. tell him your worried about falling apart. tell him its fine to have friends and to see them and hang out with them, but hes gotta remember that your his friend too, and that you want to see him too. If the relationship is strong, it will last. you need communication, first and foremost. good luck.
 
Ah, been there f'n done that. Just pretend it doesn't bother you. Then we he can actually find the time for you, blow him off. And continue to do so, maybe eventually he'll get the hint. Worked for me, but then again, I'm the Queen of manipulation.
 
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