Still hurts to have sex?

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So I barely had sex for the first time a while ago and my cherry was popped for sure.. but after trying at least like 7 times it still hurts a lot.... and not only that but is it normal to feel some type of pressure that ends up going to my butthole? its weird but i feel it there and it hurts too and im not sure what else to do... help please? or tips? anything is helpful, its just all this is new to me and i dont know what to do?
 
Maybe you need more foreplay? I'm a small person and if I'm not aroused enough going into sex then it hurts. You could also try lube.
 
You could be so concerned about the pain that you are not getting sexually aroused enough to cause enough natural lubrication. Try some lube that you can buy at Wal Mart. It could be that your bf is too rough and pounding you like there is no tomorrow. If that is the case just ask him to slow down and yall take your time. The sex act is a bonding of feelings other that physical so just take your time and enjoy all the feelings. If this does not work go see your doctor and he/she can find the cause. Good luck.
 
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