if you like to have a shower then primitive camping is not the way to go...but find a nice camping place like a state park or something close to some water...and just have fun...take a fishing pole...catch some fish...but most importantly relax...get away from it all...thats what a vacation is right?
Hotel ... I'm too old to sleep in the dirt (used to do 'tent camping')
Plus, now that our bodies complain way more than they used to ... my travel companions think "roughing it" means staying at a hotel without room service! LOL