is there a book? a movie?somehting i should do? any hints or tips on being more confidentin front of everyone.. i do feel confident infront of some people but thats only those who i think are really unconfident themselves otherwise im never my real self infront of people. when i get drunk and i become confident people really like me and i like myself but when i dont have that confidnece boost im really borring and i feel really depressed abiut ow my life is so quiet? 