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james150687

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I have a full understanding of what I am and the repercussions of my actions. I have some major decisions in my near future that need to be made. I don't know if I need help or advice. I do know what I want to do, but I also know what directions I am leaning toward. All are hard. I'd be damned any way I choose.

The decisions are and not limited too;

Staying in school or quitting
Divorce or stay married
Keep part time job (that I just got) or quit
Just let my 'boss' run his own business or continue to run the office
Fuck it and walk away from it all (just leave and don't look back)
Let things go the way they are going (do nothing)


Please no "holier than thou" responses, I will receive enough of that in real life.
 
I don't know about the rest but I would advice you to stay in school. It can only benefit you.

Oh and if you find a better part time job you can always leave the other one.
 
Are any of these decisions contingent upon the others?
Such as if you quit your job will you also have to quit school and so on and so forth?

I also advise to stay in school. You did so well this semester and it took so much to go back don't give up on that!
 
MESSAGE FROM THE POPE AND BENICIO DEL TORO​


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Stay in school and fondle your hubby more often, dont take no for an answer




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Stay the fuck in school and work on your marriage

or be a coward, kill him and your boss; Then run to Mexico.

Super Serially
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Do the right thing, its hard, its shitty, but sometimes life is ass and you gotta deal with it. I wouldn't bother to reply if i didn't think you had it in you.

As a wise man once said "git er' done"...Woman up Father fucker (maybe??? I dunno??? Do you have kids??) :tongue::tongue::tongue::tongue::tongue::tongue:​
 
Silk nobody can tell you to leave your husband or stay with him because we aren't there. I can say that if you love him, still and want the marriage to work then try harder to get him to respond. I can say that if you don't love him, then what do you have to gain/lose by staying in that situation.

I suggest taking a piece of paper (lame I know but it works) and tallying all of the pluses and minuses of all of your decisions and trying to make a decision from there.

I'm sorry that you're having a hard time luv.
 
Ok, I say stay in school. Do you want to have a sucky job all of your life?(well sometimes there not that bad). Next, if you can't stand her leave, if you like her, try to work it out. Also for your job, there is always a better one, but make sure you have a job secured before leaving. Not sure about your boss though.
 
Thanks guys for your kind words. Unfortunately, I had to make the hard decision to quit school. School is something that I wanted and need to do. I am just unable to continue at this time. Hopefully with in the next 2 years I am able to return. There is a good chance that I will not go back to complete my Associates Degree in Business, but, I will be going for what I wanted to do in the first place, Real Estate.

I will be keeping my part time job at the pizza shop. The business is a small, family owned and operated establishment. I like it there.

I will continue to do my office work for our business for the rest of this year. I honestly like doing what needs to be done for the business. My 'boss' will start doing his job better.

((Brion, with everything we have talked about, I relayed to my husband. He agrees that he needs to do better bookkeeping, he will try harder to get ALL the paper work filled out and let me know about ALL MONEY coming in/out. Tom also said that he will no longer be fudging "maintenance times."))


I guess I just needed to write things out. By doing so gave me the courage to talk with my husband and let him know everything going on with me. I let him know that I think it is sad that I feel the need to turn to people on the internet for stuff because of his lack of 'wanting to help' or listen to what I needs to talk about. I do thank all of those who listen and help me.
 
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