I have a 14 year old cousin staying with me on vacations and I found some of her behavior odd when summed up, but yet i do not know if it is just me maybe who is odd.
her behavior:
-she looked up porn on my computer(i was so mad at this for her)
-she lacks the ability to say thank you and sorry
-she talks really fast
-she seems to shift from moods between happy and very irritated (you only notice it on her face)
-I read one of her diary entries (i know i shouldnt have) where she declared her love to one of our cousins whom she saw only once for an hour, and she said "i told you things i never told anyone. You were always there for me, etc." (what things? i was there!Shes only seen him 3 times in her entire life)
-no motivation, never showed interest in careers or goals
-really bad memory: she cant remember anything before the age of 12?!?Nothing?!?! and her short term memory is awful. She is really flaky on details, so flaky she cant differentiate between my purse and hers. (worst part is that she swears its her purse even though i have shown her otherwise)
-very manipulative
I do not have any siblings, or a lot of interaction living with other people, but I just don't think this is normal behavior, that is why im looking for a second opinion.
her behavior:
-she looked up porn on my computer(i was so mad at this for her)
-she lacks the ability to say thank you and sorry
-she talks really fast
-she seems to shift from moods between happy and very irritated (you only notice it on her face)
-I read one of her diary entries (i know i shouldnt have) where she declared her love to one of our cousins whom she saw only once for an hour, and she said "i told you things i never told anyone. You were always there for me, etc." (what things? i was there!Shes only seen him 3 times in her entire life)
-no motivation, never showed interest in careers or goals
-really bad memory: she cant remember anything before the age of 12?!?Nothing?!?! and her short term memory is awful. She is really flaky on details, so flaky she cant differentiate between my purse and hers. (worst part is that she swears its her purse even though i have shown her otherwise)
-very manipulative
I do not have any siblings, or a lot of interaction living with other people, but I just don't think this is normal behavior, that is why im looking for a second opinion.