...sex or women about money? It's seems the rate of female complaints about being used by men for sex or their bodies is astronomically high compared to that of men. Similarly the rate of male complaints about being used by women for their money is astronomically high compared to that of women. Not to generalize (I know it can go both ways), but why do you think this is so, that men and women choose to use each other to acquire different goals(evolutionary position, men getting sex and women getting resources etc, just throwing something out). If the goals were the same you wouldn't see this gap, that is to say if people weren't selfish you wouldn't see any of it at all but still, very interesting.