So..this guy dumped me cause of sports season...?

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My friend told me he really liked me but he gets really seroius about sports. I liked him a lot too.

He dumped me last week and we went out for 2 weeks,

so i was wondering if it would be a good idea to be friends with him and then ask him out again after sports season is over?

Or should i just leave him alone?

He seemed really sad after he dumped me.
 
u liked him, don't u? u really wanna leave him being confused for his stupid decision? try to ask him out once again after he finished his sports season. ask him,what he really want. n say what u really want. good luck..
 
I don't see the harm in it. Try friends first, and if it escalates from there then go for it. But if the cycle continues of where he has to dump you for his buy schedule then you might want to move on. Do you really want to be in that kind of relationship?
 
Leave him alone. I know a few guys like that. They are immature. If they cant handle sports and you, its not worth it. Don't go back to him because he will leave you again when the sport season starts back up.
Being friends with him should be okay. He may like you too, but hes not worth it. I would not ask him back out though. Let him grow up. If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't have left you.
 
The same thing happened to me, and I thought about it long and hard before I decided that if he couldn't handle playing sports and having a girlfriend then he wasn't ready for a relationship. You should be friends with him, but don't try and date him again unless you're cool with getting dumped every sports season.
 
Well it sounds like being into sports is what got him off the hook, so just leave him alone & move on.
 
wow! who does that?
he must be a dedicated fan!
but what the heck!! lol umm...well do you really want someone who would rather be watching a bunch of sweaty guys he'll never met on t.v. or do you want someone with substance who can care about you and his sports?
 
Being with a fanatic is hard. I am married to one. Think really hard and do what you think.
 
Unless you can handle being totally set aside every sports season, I would suggest you find a man that does not take sports so serious. Why put your heart on a roller coaster?
 
that's really weird that he can't handle a relationship and sports. hmm...r u sure u want to be with him? Anyway, I would let him come back to you. If he wants to be with you he'lll ask you out again. but really, do u want to go out with a guy who you can only date on the off-season?
 
The best advice I can give to girls that get dumped is just to always act like you're okay. Just be cool with him. Don't make it a point to always be where he is and talk to him and stuff but if you do see him, say hi and ask how the sports are going. That way he'll know you care but he won't get annoyed/overwhelmed. Then when the seasons over maybe he'll come around. Hope this helps.
 
Well it sounds like he REALLY cares about you. Or he dos`nt at all.
if he really cares about you its because he didnt want to have to let you down by not getting to spend enough time together and have you get hurt by it. if he dosent care about he just dumped you because he dosent want to have to deal with the work of having a girlfriend and doing sports. so you should just act normal. . .not like friends but just normal dont act like you like or you dont like him. get what im sayin? sorry im confuseing arnt i? oh well hope i help...GoOd LuCk!!!!
 
I wouldn't ask him, just be friendly and see what happens after the season is done. You have to have respect for yourself make the guy chase you =)
 
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