sorry, im not bashing xbl, its a very nice setup, but theres nothing in it that makes a huge difference to me. i dont sent invites to people over live who arent in my game, i talk to them online with aim etc.. we all go into the game and then we play. so the whole cant send invites doesnt bother me. is sonys as good as m$'s, not even close, but being sonys first real attempt, its a good base to start with. as you stated, m$ has been at it for years now. you cant expect within 1 month of release for sonys to be 100% up and running with every feature enabled. it wasnt until 360, you know, 3-4 years after xbl was born on original halobox, did they finally add these features that make it great. like i said, they have catching up to do, when they add some stuff with updats and get everything working, then it would be more fair to put them side by side.
we all know xbl wasnt fully recognized till the 360. thats FINALLY when it was worth something more.