So much bullshit

I know you're not, but I know how your friends feel.

Let's just say I know things about Shannon's boyfriend she doesn't...And I won't reveal them, because it's lowbrow. I just don't like it when someone cannot wait to move from the UK to the USA to be with her and you, but as soon as he finds out you have feelings for her too, and knowing you have a better chance, he flips ya the bird.

Shannon doesn't know me well enough yet, but she knows me quite well. I just think that Darrin will be in deep shit if shoots himself in the foot in the wrong way :mad:.

I mean, the guy's living with her for fucks sake. But he has a few, erm, "issues" that won't bode well with her when they hit. They just haven't hit yet.

Rule #1 of being someone's boyfriend: Don't cut another one of her friends outta the picture just to insure you have "the girl of your dreams." ( :rolleyes: )

But she hasn't realized that he's cutting me out yet.
 
All the advice I have for you is if you don't feel anything for them don't do anything to them. I'd suggest being blunt with them and telling them how it is instead of wasting time like this, I'd do that anyway. They'll get over it, so tell them how it is.
 
OK< it has not been that long since you broke up with whats her name, so being depressed for a while after a break up is pretty normal. You do not need to jump into dating if you do not feel you are ready, actually that would probably make it worse on you. As for the girl's that are throwing themselves at your feet, just be honest with them and say that you are not ready since your break up, and you are not looking for dating/girlfriends, but being friends is fine.

As for your group, that is just normal HS shit. Girls follow the girl that the guys want, guys want to get their pee pee wet, and there will always be that manipulative bitch. You can give your friends advice, but 99 percent of the time, they have to learn it on thier own. So if they fall, its not your fault, but as a friend you can help them through whatever.

But, for right now I think you need to focus on you and your life. You need to let your buddies do thier own thing, its just normal high school drama, dont worry about the girls, there will always be girls.
 
You seem the social leader of the group. Fucking make sure the other bitch ain't invited out. As far as the other girls go. Sorry about the break-up, you will only be able to figure things out for yourself. You can see as well get told the right path but your feelings are stopping you from taking it.
 
Ugh. Life can really be a little tedious sometimes. I try and maintain a serious outlook on things, getting good grades etc. but its hard with so many distractions. I found out today an exchange student from Japan liked me, and was like crying because a couple of mates were mucking around about it. Thing is though, I like the best friend of her "host" or whatever you call them (the one the exchange student stays with) and I think that the Japanese chick is getting the wrong impression because I'm around the girl I like alot, and she is with her. (Try and make ense of that?)

Anyway, getting over a break up is tough, and I find it a little awkward trying to get into another one. My advice to you is, if you're still into her, and if she doesn't totally hate your guts (I don't know, I just skimmed over the topic), go for the "big fish" and try you chances again with the old girl ;) If not, just go with your heart (Damn, that sounded corny)


*First Post* - I'm a newbie..
 
I'm not really the "leader", we don't have one. But we are plotting the girl's demise either way.



Well, since it's your first post, you get excused for not reading it. You're way off base, but good try :thumbsup:



Yes.
 
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