So I'm confused. Sex question? Please answer.?

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hereinyourarms.

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I want to have sex with this guy. I've known him since I was in the seventh grade, and he was in the eighth. (Actually, I knew him before then, but my seventh grade year is the first time we started dating.) Anyway, we've had an off and on relationship for almost 4 years now. (I'm a junior and he's a senior.) I've never had sex with anyone. He's not a virgin. I want to have sex with him, and he's willing too. He has a girlfriend, so for now I'm definitely saying no. I know it might not be the best decision, but I mean I've always thought he was going to be the guy who took my virginity. The only problem is I'm just 16. My best friend (17) just had a baby a few months ago, and my mom had my brother when she was my age. I'd love for this guy to be my baby's daddy, but I just don't want a baby now. I know, I know. Even with a condom you can get pregnant. I'm not stupid. I was just looking for advice, suggestions, or your experiences. (Sorry for it being long.)
 
Your too young, but that said. Your prob gonna do it anyways. Best advice is 1) wait till 18. reason: if you get caught, he can go to jail and be listed as a sex offender. Also, if he loved you, why is he with another girl? 2) If your like most of us at that age, which is young dumb and stupid, at least use protection. WAY to many young mothers and single parent households (You really think he wouldmarry you)
 
Well it dosnt really if anyone tells u to just wait because it sounds to me like u have ur mind set!!! Just keep in mind that one little mistake can happen with this guy and the rest of ur high school year will be gine!! just becareful and make sure he knows what hes doing!!
 
well sweetheart here's what you do. Do not have sex with him unless your sure he can truly commit to a steady and stable relationship with you other than that, the answer should be no
 
Whoa, first off, he has a girlfriends, so no, second, you have to be willing to deal with the consequences of this if you are going to do it. Please! Learn from your friend's mistake!
 
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