I'm 20, she's 19.
Things have been going great lately. We've spent a lot of time together doing different things every day. I then decided to ask her to be my valentine.. blah..blah, and she responded by saying, "it's just another day and I'm hanging out with my mom."
We argued about it over text messaging and calls. She told me we need a break and i complain too much. She let me know her ex boyfriend "let her down" last valentines day so assumes the same from me or something like that...
She left her wallet and ipod at my house asking to bring it to her house or she'll pick it up before ignoring the rest of the texts i sent.
I looked inside her wallet, because i have been having this gut feeling that somethings not right about her and wanted to find something. I found nothing except in the very last pocket... A letter with a flower enclosed inside...
The letter frequently said "i miss you", "I want to marry you someday", calling her "sunshine"... basically everything you wouldn't ever want to hear someone else calling YOUR girlfriend..
Needless to say, i am very torn inside that she actually would be sneaking behind my back even though i've had the feeling for awhile now... but now i have living proof.
What should i do now when she contacts me for her belongings? Should i confront her about it, or is it even worth it anymore?... Thanks in advance
the note was dated august - september of last year... while we were dating for a few months.
Things have been going great lately. We've spent a lot of time together doing different things every day. I then decided to ask her to be my valentine.. blah..blah, and she responded by saying, "it's just another day and I'm hanging out with my mom."
We argued about it over text messaging and calls. She told me we need a break and i complain too much. She let me know her ex boyfriend "let her down" last valentines day so assumes the same from me or something like that...
She left her wallet and ipod at my house asking to bring it to her house or she'll pick it up before ignoring the rest of the texts i sent.
I looked inside her wallet, because i have been having this gut feeling that somethings not right about her and wanted to find something. I found nothing except in the very last pocket... A letter with a flower enclosed inside...
The letter frequently said "i miss you", "I want to marry you someday", calling her "sunshine"... basically everything you wouldn't ever want to hear someone else calling YOUR girlfriend..
Needless to say, i am very torn inside that she actually would be sneaking behind my back even though i've had the feeling for awhile now... but now i have living proof.
What should i do now when she contacts me for her belongings? Should i confront her about it, or is it even worth it anymore?... Thanks in advance
the note was dated august - september of last year... while we were dating for a few months.