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Paramad77320
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...be flirting or playful.? Girlfriend wont be affectionate as much as even kiss, hug, or say " I love you". She says that she doesn't want to have sex, or be affectionate to me, or anyone else for that fact. It's been almost 2 months since we had sex. We have been together for 4 months, and live together in a house with her 2 children, and she stays home while i work cause one of the children is a baby. I lied to her at the beginning of our relationship and didn't tell her that I was already seeing someone, but she did tell me that she was already seeing someone. After a week of us dating, and the guy she was dating left her to go back to his wife, I came clean to both women and broke it off abruptly with the other woman to be with my girlfriend, and have been faithful, honest, and true to her for almost 4 months. She holds that lie over my head, but says that I was forgiven, but she constantly brings it up if I complain about the lack of intimacy and affection, and how much I miss it. But don't complain when the rent gets paid, or electricity, and gas in the car. I take care of her and her kids to the best of my ability, without selfishness, but don't feel like I am loved, or respected, or needed for that fact. I need some serious, sound, experienced advice, cause my patience with the lack of a a whole heart-felt girlfriend is wearing thin. I love her very much, and the kids. I have threatened to leave 10 times over the last 3 weeks, and old relationship before this is looking attractive again, as ex has stated that she would and wants me back. Had no problem with her with intimacy. Girlfriend now says its not me, its her, and she don't know whats wrong with her, but the lie was the straw that broke the camels back from the ex going back to his wife, to last fiance lying to her, to last two husbands cheating. But I am still here, didn't run away, didn't go back to my wife, don't want to lie to her ever again, and and here taking care of her ad kids, and still lacking a real relationship. We live like we are married, but we fight everyday...for the last almost 4 months. She says that she wants it to work, and so do I, but cant hold on for long while she figures out why she is like this. Please some one please help before i f..k up my life and hers by being selfish and walking away. This is number 6 or me this year, so not happy with lack of emotional and physical relational, when there could be a number 7 out there giving me a good relationship.