slow dancing small talk??? HELP! 10 points!?

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at my school, no one really takes a date to the homecoming dance so for slow dances i dont dance with the same guy twice.
what can i do/say to make things less awkward during the dance? should i make eye contact?
are we supposed to talk the whole time or just be quiet and dance?
 
How very... sad for you (plural)!

Well... assuming you're female... stroke the guy's ego and ask him what his plans are for college. Truth is, you probably won't see 98% of the people you graduate with in your adult life, so it really doesn't matter!
 
Because u dance with different people, don't worry about talking with them, just dance and have fun with it.

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when you start to slow dance you can compliment them and then for the small talk, you can say like "random question time!" and ask them... well... random questions. after that, the conversation should start flowing. the eye contact thing, look at them in the eyes about 75% of the time and at their body like never. its not bad to dance with the same guy twice. maybe he could be really great for you. the more chances of time to spend together, the more you can realize and figure that out. i really hope this helped and have a great time at homecoming!!! good luck!!!!!
 
go with your gut instinct while dancing...when you first start dancing i would def do some small talk, only because if "looking into each other's eyes" is to DATEish...and since neither of those guys are ur dates...then don't make things awkward.
 
usually i never say anything, though the last time I slow danced was in middle school (my high school dances don't really have slow dances because people just grind on each other....). hopefully i'll get to this year at prom!!

if you think you need to say something, maybe comment on the dance. you know...stuff like "i really like so-and-so's dress" or "this song is so cheesy..." i think it's acceptable to be quiet though.
 
It depends, if your dancing really close to the guy that your like not face to face than you don't exactly have to start a conversation. But if your face-to-face than not talking might make it a little awkward. Maybe you can talk about the song, like if you like it or not?
Or say something flirty like Im really not the best at dancing, can you help me?
Or something along those lines.
Hope I helped !:)
 
well... if you dont know the guy.. you can ask him his name, grade simple stuff like that. if you know him then you can talk about things you have in common with him. its ok if the dance is silent in some parts. if you dont think that it is akward then it wont be.Good Luck!
 
talk about random stuff to keep your mind off the awkwardness that you may feel.
 
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