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MY STORY: I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I also have a 20 month old at home, with no help. My mother in law used to live with us and she used to watch him while I got some stuff done around the house. Now shes over at my sister in laws house, helping her.
SISTER-IN-LAWS STORY: To begin with she has always had a problem with me ever since I got married to my husband (her brother-in-law). Shes 10 years older then I am, 38. She always used to compete with every single thing that I used to do....from home decorating to clothes and eating and everything. She has a 11 year old and she started treating her the same way I treat my son, whos 20 months old.
Ok so now here is the actual story......ever since I had my son, shes been wanting to have a baby. And for some reason she cant really have one naturally, so she tried IVF. The first treatment she had 2 embryo's inserted and after 5.5 months the babies passed away. We all helped her out around the house throughout the 5.5 months because she couldnt really do much. But she didnt appreciate anyone helping her out. She still had the same attitude towards everyone. Then she had another treatment with just one and this time her body didnt accept it at all. So now she had her 3rd treatment with 2 and the doctor told her to rest and she cant do anything around the house.
Now my mother in law wants me to go over to her house and cook for her, while she sits in her bed. Just to remind you all I have a 20 month old at home and I'm 5 months pregnant.
Is this fair for her to ask me to help even though she knows my situation? I have told her that I cant come over every single day to help, but she pretends not to understand. My mother in law cant do much because shes old, so that is why shes asking me to do it for her. I mean why dosent my sister in law get her mom to come and help?
They treat her 11 year old like a baby and she does not do anything around the house. If someone tells her to do anything then she starts crying and if she crys then my sister in law crys. Her husbands like there isnt much I can do because they both starts to cry if he says anything. My sister in law loves attention and I wouldnt be surprised if shes ONLY doing this for attention.
MY STORY: I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I also have a 20 month old at home, with no help. My mother in law used to live with us and she used to watch him while I got some stuff done around the house. Now shes over at my sister in laws house, helping her.
SISTER-IN-LAWS STORY: To begin with she has always had a problem with me ever since I got married to my husband (her brother-in-law). Shes 10 years older then I am, 38. She always used to compete with every single thing that I used to do....from home decorating to clothes and eating and everything. She has a 11 year old and she started treating her the same way I treat my son, whos 20 months old.
Ok so now here is the actual story......ever since I had my son, shes been wanting to have a baby. And for some reason she cant really have one naturally, so she tried IVF. The first treatment she had 2 embryo's inserted and after 5.5 months the babies passed away. We all helped her out around the house throughout the 5.5 months because she couldnt really do much. But she didnt appreciate anyone helping her out. She still had the same attitude towards everyone. Then she had another treatment with just one and this time her body didnt accept it at all. So now she had her 3rd treatment with 2 and the doctor told her to rest and she cant do anything around the house.
Now my mother in law wants me to go over to her house and cook for her, while she sits in her bed. Just to remind you all I have a 20 month old at home and I'm 5 months pregnant.
Is this fair for her to ask me to help even though she knows my situation? I have told her that I cant come over every single day to help, but she pretends not to understand. My mother in law cant do much because shes old, so that is why shes asking me to do it for her. I mean why dosent my sister in law get her mom to come and help?
They treat her 11 year old like a baby and she does not do anything around the house. If someone tells her to do anything then she starts crying and if she crys then my sister in law crys. Her husbands like there isnt much I can do because they both starts to cry if he says anything. My sister in law loves attention and I wouldnt be surprised if shes ONLY doing this for attention.