how many black people have you actually heard say that? i mean, really? do you only hear other white people saying that black people say that and you believe it's true? lol most people know that in america, everybody has an equal shot...whether they take it or not, is up to them....and yeah, maybe some have to fight harder for it, but no one can hold you back. and if someone does say that, well, duh, it's an excuse for their own failures.