Sick of being tired and tired of being sick.

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Jenr

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Well hell, people aren't particular about their friends. But would you approach a woman you find unattractive for a date. YES or NO.
 
Unfortunately I am kind of shallow and superficial. Sorry, I just can't date someone if I don't think they're physically attractive. It's the first thing I notice about anyone. Usually the face first, but if they're morbidly obese I just sorta stay away. I know people can be fat and good-looking, but obesity and ugliness are definitely turn-offs for me.

At least I'm selfless enough to admit it. It's not like I'm a sexy beast or anything.
 
yes, there are some primitive cultures that prefer fat women.



i'll have you know that i mostly prefer voluptuous women.

also, when I say fat, I'm not talking about people who are a few kilos overweight; what i mean is McDonalds fat. A few kilos over is no big deal.
 
So it's our fault that we're not attracted to overweight women? OK.

Sorry, but I value physical attraction, as well as a woman's drive to keep herself in shape and healthy.

I am in no way uncivil towards large people, and would never let weight or physical appearance affect a friendship or other platonic relationship. However, I just can't become physically involved with a woman I'm not attracted to.
 
It could just be your bitchy attittude thats unattractive. Also that you're impaitent, and can't find a guy who likes you for you.
 
please don't repeat hear-say as if it's fact. urbanised south africans have the same tastes as the western world. the preference for fat people in south africa is only found in the previous generation and in rural (unmodernised) communities.
 
It's hear say alright. I heard my mom's south african boyfriends say it. why don't you stop thinking everyone has your cultural views around the world.
 
believe who you want to believe.

in any case, it's been found that primitive cultures in general tend to like their women fat. something to do with food being scarce and thus well fed people valued.

one thing which is true though, is that a lot of south african women of dutch descent (which is quite a large part of the population) are quite overweight. but that in no way means that the males would choose them over thinner girls.
 
You know there is really no reason for a man. There are toys. I mean you can use a man to help with the toys but really, do you want to put up with their whining? their tirades? Just use them and when they start getting complicated find another. I mean really, keep them at a distance. The only thing I have found is they get paid more than I do, however, they spend their money faster than I would.

I think you need to work on being happy with yourself. Find out what makes you happy about you and work on that.
 
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