shy manhood problem?

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i was jw if yall could help me out with a very personal problem... im 19 a virgin and i have this problem...well i have a shy penis and every time and i mean every time i try to get intimate with a girl i cant get erect and i get nervous and idk why... any advice?
the reason i ask is because me and my new gf were plannin on havin sex pretty soon and itll be both our first times and i jus need some pointers man please help a brotha out
 
Firstly, don't worry - you are no different from anyone else here, everyone had to start somewhere!!
Everyone got nervous at the start - because it's intimidating. People tell so many stories about how great they were the first time and how confident they always were. They're lying. Everyone was awkward and a bit crap... that's life. But, the great news is, that it will definitely get better and easier.

Its happening because you are worried and stress means the little fella doesn't feel confident in performing! But that will definitely change with time... you certainly don't need to take viagra, that's a stupid response... it will happen naturally, just don't put pressure on yourself.

The only thing you need to do is relax, take your time and enjoy the experience. Enjoy messing around, maybe keep it on top of clothes to start with, until your comfortable with each progression in what you are doing.
 
Firstly, don't worry - you are no different from anyone else here, everyone had to start somewhere!!
Everyone got nervous at the start - because it's intimidating. People tell so many stories about how great they were the first time and how confident they always were. They're lying. Everyone was awkward and a bit crap... that's life. But, the great news is, that it will definitely get better and easier.

Its happening because you are worried and stress means the little fella doesn't feel confident in performing! But that will definitely change with time... you certainly don't need to take viagra, that's a stupid response... it will happen naturally, just don't put pressure on yourself.

The only thing you need to do is relax, take your time and enjoy the experience. Enjoy messing around, maybe keep it on top of clothes to start with, until your comfortable with each progression in what you are doing.
 
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