Should my parents know about my gay lifestyle? KINDA GRAPHIC!?

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John Jones

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Okay gradutated early from high school last year because of good grades. I am currently going to school at UCLA. My parents agreed to pay for everything: Rent, car, cable, books etc... They visit often but not that much. They knew i was gay since i was 14 and so one day last week i had a "friend" over and he were in the middle of intercourse when there was a knock at the door. So i looked out the peephole, and their were my parents standing right there. Since there is no backdoor, i had to let the guy run out the house with only his pants on and they were really shocked and after i let them in, my mom immidately started asked me about my lifestyle. She wanted to know who i was having intercourse with, how many times have i went down on a person, and very graphic things. I of course was very shocked and i quickly changed the subject and asked her why did neither of them called to tell me they were on their way. She said she didnt think she had too since they were family. And im like i dont care who you are, CALL before you come. So should my parents know about these graphic things?
 
hmmmm thats kinda tricky.. if your mom is okay with it i guess its koo to tell her, but do you want her to know that your having sex with guys already ? i know your old enough to do what you want but youre still her little boy and im sure she'll be uncomfortable once you tell her. especially if its been acouple of times. if i were you i'd be like "mom its my sex life (lifestyle) and you dnt need to know about it" thee end. end of story ! aha but good luckk with what ever you choose
 
Should they Know graphic things, is that what your asking if so yes they should they are adults and probably know many "graphic" things.

Should they know the "graphic" details of your lifestyle? No, I don't think so. If your gay that should be all they need to know. Turn the tables maybe and get a laugh. Ask them the "graphic" details of their sex life. They'll probably drop the conversation real quick and not ask you to explain any further.

And yes they should have called, I don't know how far they traveled but what if you hadn't been home at the time? Maybe explain it to them from the stand-point of them being disappointed for not calling and making plans.
 
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