Should I wait until i'm done with college to start having sex?

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I'm 19 years old, never had sex, so i'm still a virgin. Not to brag, but I am very attractive, so I definitely can have sex if I want to, but i've always avoided it from fear of accidentally becoming pregnant. I would make sure he wears a condom when I do have sex, but even a condom isn't a 100% guarantee you won't get pregnant. I'm in my sophomore year of college now, and if I ever did accidentally become pregnant while in college, my life would be ruined completely. Should I just wait 2 years and start having sex once have my degree, or should I start now anyway because i can?
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You should start having sex when you want to, not when a bunch of strangers on yahoo say you should. You sound like a smart girl, be safe, stay in school, and do what you want with your virginity. Good luck.
 
Have it when you meet someone you feel comfortable with. If you accidentally become pregnant, have an abortion.
And make sure he knows how to use the condom well before you guys get close to sex.
 
look..just do it whenever YOU FEEL READY..not cos u can or cos ur friends are doing it or for whatever other reason..one word of advice..if i could go back i wouldnt have lost it the way i did..and i think a LOT of people can say that..! so yeh..the advice..save it for someone you love and you feel is worth it cos once its gone it wont come back..! remember that..! just go on the pill or somethin and use a condom if ur gunna..at the end of the day..its you that has 2 choose..nobody else..!
 
i would wait because i have two of my really good friends in highschool pregnant now and they are regretting it. there are two more in my highschool pregnant, but i don't know them so well. so wait. because you might regret it later on.
 
yes.
don't risk the mistake of getting pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease on accident.
it could cause a lot of trauma and disrupt your college time.

but have sex when your married so that if you do become pregnant, it wouldn't be as problematic as a relationship with someone you don't love but just wanted to have sex with.
 
Unless you are using atleast two forms of birth control, you should wait until you are ready for kids to start having sex because sex=pregnancy.
 
Honestly? Don't plan on having sex due to your age or anything silly like that. I would wait until you find someone that you really like and if you both feel it's time to take it further, then do so. You want your first time to be special with someone you actually care about. You don't just want to do it simply because you can. And once you do, condoms are definitely a good idea. They aren't 100% guarantee, true, but they are effective for the most part. If that's what you're truly worried about, then get put on birth control.

Hope this helps!
 
Don't do it "because you can." Do it because you're ready, because you know that you can handle everything that comes with it (including the possibility of becoming pregnant), and because you found someone you really love and want to do it with.
 
is BEST thing to finish your collage and university. that must important. if u had sex and become pregnant definitely lose your collage.

good luck
 
Sex is something you should do with someone you love. It's so different and more meaningful when the person you are giving your body to isn't just some random guy at a party. I personally think you should wait. Not exactly until marriage, but until you truly feel that someone is special enough. Call me old fashioned, but that's just my view.
 
What? we decided your fate? wtf! what kind of girl ask this. Of course i would say yes cus i would f*ck u anyday sweet heart! HAHA
 
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