Hello,
I'm having a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and I can tell he's tired of it, although I'm trying to make things move as fast as I can to join him. Recently, we had a huge fight and he broke up with me.
A couple of days later, I found out he put an announce on craigslist but he denied it when I asked. I also think he dated someone else for a few days.
Things going better, we got back together recently but that announce is still there, and he's distant. I can't tell if he's happy or not and he keeps saying everything is ok.
I'm tempted to write from an anonymous email and ask if he's still looking. On the other hand, I know it's not good and it wouldn't change my feelings for him even if he answers, just give me a proof of his behaviour and maybe we could talk about being honest to each other. I just want to know.
Is this a bad idea?
I'm having a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and I can tell he's tired of it, although I'm trying to make things move as fast as I can to join him. Recently, we had a huge fight and he broke up with me.
A couple of days later, I found out he put an announce on craigslist but he denied it when I asked. I also think he dated someone else for a few days.
Things going better, we got back together recently but that announce is still there, and he's distant. I can't tell if he's happy or not and he keeps saying everything is ok.
I'm tempted to write from an anonymous email and ask if he's still looking. On the other hand, I know it's not good and it wouldn't change my feelings for him even if he answers, just give me a proof of his behaviour and maybe we could talk about being honest to each other. I just want to know.
Is this a bad idea?