Should I tell my girlfriend I hate our sex life?

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Ok so I have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months now and I love her so much. We are both 17. But when it comes to sexual stuff I'm always initiating it and doing all the work. I have done pretty much everything to her on a regular basis oral, fingering etc etc. However she never does anything to me and has only jacked me off thrice. We have started having sex but because shes a virgin(as am I) it really hurts her. We have done this 4 times and I have not gotten off once. Even when we both don't orgasm she doesn't even make an attempt to get me off. It seems like our sex life is all about her and I'm really starting to get sick of it. It's not fair to me. Would should I do I really love her but I hate it that she never considers what i want in the bedroom. Oh and Its not like im pressuring her into it or anything because she always asks to do it and she loves when i do stuff to her.