should i tell him, end it, or shut up ??? :o?

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I met this dude 2 months ago, and got along great since the 1st time we talked. We barely started having sex a couple weeks back, and well we've never talked about having an actual relationship. We are just seeing each other, and we hang out a couple times a week since we both live at school. Very recently I barely met one of his friends since our friends' circles are compeletly different, and he kinda let him know that we r seeing each other which was a bit surprising. My questions comes here, idk what to do cause I need to know how much he likes me and if he thinks we r something or not. I have no idea if he thinks we are dating, just friends, (very recently with some benfits) , or if he thinks there is something else, or just fooling around. IT's very confusing. Should I talk to him? wait some time to see what happens? I dont want him to think im all in love or something stupid like that. I just want to make sure that even if we r not together he is not seeing anyone else. And I am in fact very curious to know why he hasnt tried to get with me. :o what do i tell him ???! or should i just shut up? or just end this "relationship" thing?well, he never tried to pressure me or anything to sleep with him. It was pretty much something in that very moment. we've had sex just a couple times atcually. He's a yr younger than me, and there is no like a good reason for him not to want to be with me like officially. I'm attractive, really smart at school, independent, easy going, i'm not slutty or anything (he's the 2nd person i had sex with and im 21) and he knows all this. So yeah, idk why he doesnt say anything about US
 
I think you should end this "relationship". He wants to have sex with you, without having any feelings at all... that is not acceptable. You're a woman, you deserve respect. Go find someone else that will treat you right instead of this guy who wants to have sex with you all the time.
 
i think you should tell him how you feel. if he likes what he hears he will tell you that he really likes you.
 
Why should he need to have arelationship with you when u r giving him all he wants now. He has his cake and is eating it 2. Give him a bit of a challenge. At the moment you are not an item, so if he wanted to sleep around he can. If I was a guy and could have sex with a girl that I am not in a relationship with and could be free to see others as well why the hell would I want to have a relationship for. Get it. Find out from him if he just wants to be friends tell him then there will be no more sex, Unless Of Course U want 2.
 
wait check whether real love is there or not . real love wont lead you to think first of sex and later about every thing it sounds that real love is missing to get connected. if you find that real love is not their leave it wash your hands, empty his pocket, go home have a sound sleep with your pillow mates, their is one day in every ones love life like this. every dog has its day;
 
Hi Mari-cru, you said that you were smart, easy going, independent,attractive and not being slutty but what you never realize is that, you were all too good to be true for the above mentioned.How can you be so nice and simple at the same time and realizing thatyou need to have this relationship to be official and yet you were totallyso free to give in to his demands of sex and finally come to wake up forall this answers, so I suggest you should stop having sex with him and see how he react and get back your priorities right and make him realize that you're not a girl that he can have sex anytime he wish for.PERIOD
 
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