XxXChristineForemanXxX
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So my boyfriend and I are starting to consider having vaginal sex. Not right away, but probably a month at the least. We want to wait as long as possible, because it will be the first time for both of us and we want to make it special. The "special scenario" we both want in his car he's getting (either a Camero or a Trans am) with our playlist of love songs playing in the background. Orginally, we had planned for it to happen on our 2 year anniversary which is about a year and a half from now. Exept everyday my sex drive is increasing and becoming even more intense. I've even started mildly asking him for vaginal sex now, even though I'm only 14 1/2. But I just don't feel I can wait that long. My boyfriend and I agreed to use a condom and that I was going to start taking the pills before we do. The only problem we have is we can't get ahold of the pills, since you need a doctor to prescribe them to you. Neither of us feel safe using just a condom. There's only 2 solutions I can come up with. I could lie and tell my parents that I have killer cramps and want to start using the pill to eliminate my period, thereby eliminating the supposed cramps. Or I could tell them the true reason I want the pills. My dad and mimaw are strictly Catholic when it comes to having sex. Basically, they don't believe in sex before marriage, something I just don't agree on. My dad, however, was 16 when I was born, and has always said that he'll fucking castrate and kill the son of a bitch who tries to get in my pants. I'm not quite sure whether that means rape or sex before marriage in general. Either way, it makes me really scared he'll follow through with it, and harm my boyfriend, whom I love so very much. ANYWAYS! My dad could take this either way. Scenario one: He could be happy that I'm being open and honest and that I'm trying to protect myself so I don't end up a teen parent like he was and give in. Scenario two: He could flip out, wonder where the hell my good training all these years went, ban me from seeing my boyfriend ever again, and lock me up even tighter then he already does. Now, the other possibility I've thought of is talking to my mom (seperated parents). My mom has never said anything about premarital sex/protection/STD's/anything else to do with sex to me. She's never even given me "the talk." (I'm almost 15), so I have no clue how she'll handle it. The only drawback I have is she doesn't approve of my boyfriend at all. Really, I'd go as far as to say she hates him. My dad on the other hand approves of him like 200%. My dad and I also tend to have a really open and honest father-daughter relationship. I talk to him about my relationships, he talks to me about his. My dad is almost like one of my best friends. So I think I would most likely talk to him. And he's less likely to yell then my mom is, as my mom and I have NEVER seen eye to eye about anything. So, in the event I decide to talk to my dad about the pills, should I lie and use the period excuse? Or should I be open and honest and tell him that my boyfriend and I are considering vaginal sex?