should i take my x to court? and will i win?

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Gloria

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so i want to take my x boyfriend to court. in october 2004 i had a son name George. he was born with down symodome and when he was born i had ptd so i told the father to take the baby and never come back. and i didnt see him for 4 years. last time i sew him was 3 weeks ago. i want to take care of George and i want to care of him everyday. i want him to go to his farthers house on the weekends. what can i do so that happens? i'm 48 years old and i work in popeyes so my job is not that nice but still. what can i do so i get costly of the kid.
i have 7 other kids but they are all grown up. they are 20 and older
 
well scince he has had him for 4 years the court is not gonna just say ok you want him now? you take him. You didnt try to contact him for 4 years? what makes you think you can just have him back whenever you want him. it dont work that way. i think the best you can do is mabey 50 50 custody at the most. but good luck with that.
 
What makes you think you have the right? You can't provide the life he deserves working at popeyes. Aside from that, you abandoned the boy. Your rationale matters not. The fact remains that you abandoned him. I'd suggest getting over yourself and maybe start thinking about the kid for once. Selfish whore.
 
you have almost zero chance of getting custody of this kid. the court will look at the best interests of the child, and clearly that is to leave him with his father, the only parent he knows. you should be grateful if you get to even have weekend or overnight visits with your son. have you thought about how this would effect the child, to be taken from his home to go live with some strange lady he has only seen once in his life? you can't just do this to make yourself feel better about what you have done.
 
first, I'd keep your legs together in future, accepting that you had PTD then your case is not as bad as it seems though it won't do you much good having sent the father and baby off saying you never wanted to see them, now you suddenly think you can change your mind and get everything back. I suggest if you really do want to get involved with the child that you speak to the father and try and work something out, to take it to court is a vicious and vile thing to do, its a child for gods sake, not a stereo.
 
i would say to the court people that he has he you son for 4 years so now you can have him until the weekend till the 4 years is up and then do week on week off (if u go to court)i feel so sorry for u because im going through this as well and i know how it feels! if you have proof that he had your son for 4 years then i would go. im going to give you good luck if u go. i would only go if u have lots of people on your side and hardly on your x's side!
 
tough s hit b itch. Your no mother you low life piece of trash "I told the father to take the baby and never come back" the kid is better off with out a piece of garbage like you. LMAO there is no way in hell your going to win in court. Stupid b itch
 
Court is something that should be avoided until you have no other options. I suggest you start the conversation with your exboyfriend about potentially becoming a part of your son's life again, and perhaps getting some regular schedule set up. since you went 4 years without fighting this before, you aren't in very good standings to try to take this to court, so it's best that you work with your exboyfriend and not against him to try to find a mutually agreeable solution.

Please also keep in mind that while you may want to have your son living with you most of the time now, it's your son's needs that need to come first not your own. For any 4 year old it's a huge disruption to their lives to have a parent come back like that, let alone take him away from the only parent he's ever known. This is even more important with a special needs child and you all need to proceed with extreme caution here and make sure any changes you do try to make are very gradual for him.
 
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