I had being going out with my Ex for 7 months and even though that might seem like a short stint, I've being around the block enough to know whether I'm happy in a relationship and if there are serious flaws evident. However, on this occasion I was oblivious. We got on really well and could share all our thoughts (well so I thought) with each other. My friends and family couldn't believe how well we were getting on...even joking about marriage.
However, on our holidays just recently, she started to cry on the second day of a seven day holiday, which incidently was also her 29th birthday. I asked her what was wrong and she just started to go on about the day being so strange and that we were like strangers all day. I would admit that we weren't all over each other, but I was having a bad day myself, as I had a trapped nerve in my back which made it unbearable to walk, but thats neither here nor there.
After talking for a while, she says she thinks there's something missing and that she had noticed this for some weeks and thought the holiday might rekindle it. I was shellshocked, it was only the night before she told me that she loved me andthen this.
The rest of the holiday was emotional tough because I didn't know whether i was coming or going.
She wanted to end it as soon as we stepped off the plane but I asked her not to pannick and perhaps take a few weeks break to gather her thoughts.
After a week, she rang and said thanks for the flowers (which I had sent to her house) but you shouldn't have. She asked me not to hate her and that she would not change her mind and that we were finished.
I was dumbstruck and had no words to describe the feeling, I could not respond.
we hung up and I tried to ring her again but got the answer machine where I left a message asking her not to throw everything away and to give things another go (as calmly speaking as i could).
It is now a week since we spoke and I have not made contact. in fact I deleted all messages and numbers belong to her. All I have is her address and email.
I feel that perhaps she may be panicking cause of her age or perhaps there's someone else in the picture, but I don't think she's the type to do the dirt plus she told me that there was no one else (I have to tkae her word).
She means the world to me and perhaps I may have being too much of a pushover, which is my main weakness in the sense I would do anything she asked of me.
I know she loves all the mushy and cheesy stuff in life, which is why I have written a poem (about 100 lines long) about how we met, what we done together, her good qualities and what she means to me. It is as much humoursome as it is cheesy.
I am thinking of posting it next week or perhaps driving down to her place (nearly 2 hours away) and leave it at her door, but I don't know if that is too early to send on or should I hold out.
It will give her something to think about while not seeing me or hearing me. I have also sketched some funny moments we had together, which might help remember all the good times.
What do you suggest I do???
However, on our holidays just recently, she started to cry on the second day of a seven day holiday, which incidently was also her 29th birthday. I asked her what was wrong and she just started to go on about the day being so strange and that we were like strangers all day. I would admit that we weren't all over each other, but I was having a bad day myself, as I had a trapped nerve in my back which made it unbearable to walk, but thats neither here nor there.
After talking for a while, she says she thinks there's something missing and that she had noticed this for some weeks and thought the holiday might rekindle it. I was shellshocked, it was only the night before she told me that she loved me andthen this.
The rest of the holiday was emotional tough because I didn't know whether i was coming or going.
She wanted to end it as soon as we stepped off the plane but I asked her not to pannick and perhaps take a few weeks break to gather her thoughts.
After a week, she rang and said thanks for the flowers (which I had sent to her house) but you shouldn't have. She asked me not to hate her and that she would not change her mind and that we were finished.
I was dumbstruck and had no words to describe the feeling, I could not respond.
we hung up and I tried to ring her again but got the answer machine where I left a message asking her not to throw everything away and to give things another go (as calmly speaking as i could).
It is now a week since we spoke and I have not made contact. in fact I deleted all messages and numbers belong to her. All I have is her address and email.
I feel that perhaps she may be panicking cause of her age or perhaps there's someone else in the picture, but I don't think she's the type to do the dirt plus she told me that there was no one else (I have to tkae her word).
She means the world to me and perhaps I may have being too much of a pushover, which is my main weakness in the sense I would do anything she asked of me.
I know she loves all the mushy and cheesy stuff in life, which is why I have written a poem (about 100 lines long) about how we met, what we done together, her good qualities and what she means to me. It is as much humoursome as it is cheesy.
I am thinking of posting it next week or perhaps driving down to her place (nearly 2 hours away) and leave it at her door, but I don't know if that is too early to send on or should I hold out.
It will give her something to think about while not seeing me or hearing me. I have also sketched some funny moments we had together, which might help remember all the good times.
What do you suggest I do???