My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago over him talking to his ex and hiding it and lying repeatedly to my face about it. A couple days later, I got on his email to delete the pictures of myself I had sent to his phone (which he then saved to his email and took off his phone) because I've heard of angry ex boyfriends posting pictures of their girlfriends on the interent. I was clicking on the emails from his phone with photo attachments, assuming that they were all of me. I opened one from February 23 of this year to see another girl in her bra, posing. Needless to say, I was/am extremely pissed off. He had been sneaky about texting this very girl (around the same time this picture was sent) and I got upset about it then. I let it go, not wanting to be a control freak. He never told me about it the picture incident or anything.
The thing is, this girl was in a relationship at the time, and is still in that relationship. Should I let her boyfriend know what she did? Is that only fair? How would you feel if your girlfriend/boyfriend had sent a naughty picture to another man?
There is a second part to this question. I have been with my boyfriend almost two years. I love him and have never felt a connection like this before. I also have never been more furious or heartbroken in my life. What do I do? Try to fix it? Be friends? We have been around each other the past two days, strictly as friends. It's hard to be away from him. Please help me with this.
He as apologized profusely for it, saying that he doesn't know why he kept the picture and didn't tell me. He claims to not find her attractive (and compared to what he had, she is not) and says that they will never speak again. He hates himself, that much I can see.
The thing is, this girl was in a relationship at the time, and is still in that relationship. Should I let her boyfriend know what she did? Is that only fair? How would you feel if your girlfriend/boyfriend had sent a naughty picture to another man?
There is a second part to this question. I have been with my boyfriend almost two years. I love him and have never felt a connection like this before. I also have never been more furious or heartbroken in my life. What do I do? Try to fix it? Be friends? We have been around each other the past two days, strictly as friends. It's hard to be away from him. Please help me with this.
He as apologized profusely for it, saying that he doesn't know why he kept the picture and didn't tell me. He claims to not find her attractive (and compared to what he had, she is not) and says that they will never speak again. He hates himself, that much I can see.