I currently live on my own, but I am unhappy. My lease is up in about a month and my friend has offered for me to stay with her and her parents in their spare bedroom. I don't know what to do.
I have been on my own now for a couple of years but do not enjoy living on my own. It was nice at first having a place to myself but I have become tired and unhappy of living alone. I am a young college student, so money is very tight. I recently purchased a new car, so having to pay for that as well as rent is very difficult to do on my own.
It was actually her parents who suggested I stay there. I was extremely shocked when they offered, but the more I thought about it, it seemed like a good idea.
She is my best friend and we get along extremely well. The thing is I don't really know her parents very well. I have met them a few times but they seem like extremely nice people.
I guess I am just scared that it is something my friend doesn't want. Since it was her parents who offered I am afraid that she is not on board with the idea. I have talked to her about it a few times and she said that is something she would want and she thinks it would be awesome if I lived with them. I just dont know if i competely believe her, only because it is such a huge decision. She is such an important person to me and I am just worried that this may harm our friendship.
I am very respectful of others and I will pick up after myself and respect their space. Of course I will also help out with whatever I can like utilities or groceries. I am not a person who will take advantage of the situation. I am just afraid that things will not go well and I will lose her as a friend.
I just dont know what I should do. Should I continue on living by myself even though I will be unhappy, and it will be a struggle financially? Or should I stay with my friend for a few months until I get my financial situation under control, but risk harming our friendship in the process?
I have been on my own now for a couple of years but do not enjoy living on my own. It was nice at first having a place to myself but I have become tired and unhappy of living alone. I am a young college student, so money is very tight. I recently purchased a new car, so having to pay for that as well as rent is very difficult to do on my own.
It was actually her parents who suggested I stay there. I was extremely shocked when they offered, but the more I thought about it, it seemed like a good idea.
She is my best friend and we get along extremely well. The thing is I don't really know her parents very well. I have met them a few times but they seem like extremely nice people.
I guess I am just scared that it is something my friend doesn't want. Since it was her parents who offered I am afraid that she is not on board with the idea. I have talked to her about it a few times and she said that is something she would want and she thinks it would be awesome if I lived with them. I just dont know if i competely believe her, only because it is such a huge decision. She is such an important person to me and I am just worried that this may harm our friendship.
I am very respectful of others and I will pick up after myself and respect their space. Of course I will also help out with whatever I can like utilities or groceries. I am not a person who will take advantage of the situation. I am just afraid that things will not go well and I will lose her as a friend.
I just dont know what I should do. Should I continue on living by myself even though I will be unhappy, and it will be a struggle financially? Or should I stay with my friend for a few months until I get my financial situation under control, but risk harming our friendship in the process?