Should I let my bf move in? I've been seeing him for about 6 months...his

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BrokerJ

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sex is Fantastic!!? Will the sex become ordinary if he lives with me? Nats bi and I'm gay....also should I ask him to sign a ore nup?
 
Sex shouldn't be your big worry. Have you lived with roomates before? What are some of the good and bad things about having somebody else share a place with you? What about if it's somebody who you like alot? Will this make it trickier to resolve arguments? Or maybe easier? How will both of you share the expenses? Do you have to give each other notice when you invite people over or want to have quiet time?

Figure these things out first. As far as sex goes, find ways to spend time apart from him doing your own interests. Hang out for an evenign with friends without him. Take a day to visit your family or to pursue a hobby. Try to reach balance in the relationship and everything will be fine.
 
Yes of course, fantastic sex must be the only reason why people would move in together.................................not
 
I'm hetero, so I'm not sure of your motivations long term, I'm assuming your wanting a hot partner for life like the rest of us. Anyway, why ruin a hot good thing. It's alittle bit more sexy nauty when you don't see his dirty socks or have to worry about his needs 24/7. Or if you are lucky enough to be a diva he might not like having to tend to yours 24/7. I'd vote no. It's really difficult to untangle when you live together. I'm not familiar with ore nup terminology...but it sounds like a conversation that could inhibit that fantastic sex.

Actually, forget everything I said, I know nothing about what would work in your scenario, I was trying to make a parallel scenario based on my hetero experience. You do what makes you happy...you sound a long way from marriage....but that's ok as long as everyone understands that.
 
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