teenabeenabobeena
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It happened two weeks ago. I got into another complication with this guy who I've been in love with for 6+ years now. He knows how I feel about him and ever since he moved back to Italy he's been acting... different (bad different). He's always been moody but I've noticed he's gotten very rude and aggressive lately. When my friend and the both of us were discussing a movie, he pretty much said that his opinion was all that mattered..so ha!..., which I responded well mine does too 
and he told me "e ff you how about that XD" so...I flicked his ear because I didn't like the way he spoke to me. I know I should have handled it differently, and I am ready to apologize to him... but what he said after... when I told him not to hit me, he yelled at me for hitting him and threatened me and said violent... angry things towards me which felt really out-of-character. He never hit me before, and we've had arguments..(kinda like Rachel and Ross from FRIENDS arguments..)... but none have ever hurt me as much as this one did. The last thing he said to me was I'll apologize if you do...but the things he said after he said "I deserve to be hit back" he was being all hypocritical and really not him. I know he acts out when there's a full moon and a week before it and when he's stressed out, and I wrote him a letter saying how I felt and how what he said was wrong and really hurtful. I sent it to a friend (the same friend who was in the conversation with us that day) and she said that I made really good points and that I should send it. It's been two weeks and we haven't spoken... he's coming back to Italy (he was on vacation in Greece when this happened) and I was going to wait until then to send it. I don't know how, but today he got online today and spoke to the same friend about me... saying to her that I'm ignoring him and being ridiculous. I am still upset at what he said to me, but I really hate not talking to him and I'm afraid he's going to get even more mad/angry when I bring it up again since it happened weeks ago. What should I do? Please help....he's coming back tomorrow... 
(He's also been diagnosed as an abuser by a psychologist I know... and I only have contact with him through the computer and I really care about him and want him to get better since I know he hasn't always been like this.)
and he told me "e ff you how about that XD" so...I flicked his ear because I didn't like the way he spoke to me. I know I should have handled it differently, and I am ready to apologize to him... but what he said after... when I told him not to hit me, he yelled at me for hitting him and threatened me and said violent... angry things towards me which felt really out-of-character. He never hit me before, and we've had arguments..(kinda like Rachel and Ross from FRIENDS arguments..)... but none have ever hurt me as much as this one did. The last thing he said to me was I'll apologize if you do...but the things he said after he said "I deserve to be hit back" he was being all hypocritical and really not him. I know he acts out when there's a full moon and a week before it and when he's stressed out, and I wrote him a letter saying how I felt and how what he said was wrong and really hurtful. I sent it to a friend (the same friend who was in the conversation with us that day) and she said that I made really good points and that I should send it. It's been two weeks and we haven't spoken... he's coming back to Italy (he was on vacation in Greece when this happened) and I was going to wait until then to send it. I don't know how, but today he got online today and spoke to the same friend about me... saying to her that I'm ignoring him and being ridiculous. I am still upset at what he said to me, but I really hate not talking to him and I'm afraid he's going to get even more mad/angry when I bring it up again since it happened weeks ago. What should I do? Please help....he's coming back tomorrow... (He's also been diagnosed as an abuser by a psychologist I know... and I only have contact with him through the computer and I really care about him and want him to get better since I know he hasn't always been like this.)