I've just started a period of annual leave which will then automatically start as maternity leave in June or when my baby is born whichever comes first.
My problem is that my husband is making me feel terrible, I seriously think he's jealous about the amount of time I'm going to be having off work. He's been incredibly grumpy since I left work, he expects me to have the house perfect every evening when he comes home, dinner has to be cooked, he won't cook because I'm off all day.
This morning he left without even saying goodbye or giving me a goodbye kiss because he was in such a foul mood and I hadn't even woken up properly to do anything wrong. He's also given me a list of things to be doing when he's out today.
I am even keeping a running record of how I'm spending my time during the day because he doesn't believe I'm 'busy enough' or doing enough around the house.
I feel more stressed and exhausted now than when I was in work so I'm wondering if I should just forfeit my annual leave for now and take it at the end of my maternity and go back to work now until baby is born? I feel like I'd be better off at the office than at home to be perfectly honest
I've already spent the morning crying and it's not even 9am.
My problem is that my husband is making me feel terrible, I seriously think he's jealous about the amount of time I'm going to be having off work. He's been incredibly grumpy since I left work, he expects me to have the house perfect every evening when he comes home, dinner has to be cooked, he won't cook because I'm off all day.
This morning he left without even saying goodbye or giving me a goodbye kiss because he was in such a foul mood and I hadn't even woken up properly to do anything wrong. He's also given me a list of things to be doing when he's out today.
I am even keeping a running record of how I'm spending my time during the day because he doesn't believe I'm 'busy enough' or doing enough around the house.
I feel more stressed and exhausted now than when I was in work so I'm wondering if I should just forfeit my annual leave for now and take it at the end of my maternity and go back to work now until baby is born? I feel like I'd be better off at the office than at home to be perfectly honest
I've already spent the morning crying and it's not even 9am.