I'm really stressed out so much because i don't have the financial support fundings for my education for my future. I've just graduated from high school in the past summer and i applied for a 2 year college and the transfer to a 4 year university, i've also applied for financial aid so it could help out with my payments for college. But the other day, i've recieved a letter from the financial aid's office saying that i don't qualify for financial aid because i still live with my parents and because my parent's income is in the range that does not qualify for aid support. I've tried applying for a student loan but it is still not sure if they will lend me the money or not. I feel really hopleless and i think my future is going to be ruined. I've tried applying for a part time job but i can't even get hired and now my parents don't even have enough money to pay for me for college because they are in so much debt of credit cards. They were thinking of putting our new 3 year old home on the risk of losing it to rent a loan for me if they don't approve the student loan, i don't want lose my home. I think it's president obama's fault for letting things get this worse. He has not done anything to fix the economy yet at all. Also no girls like me at all, i've never had a girlfriend either. I'm vietnamese and all the vietnamese girls in my town don't like me because i am so poor. They say no one will ever like you because you're poor. It looks like no woman will ever marry me because i am poor. I'm so stressed out and i can't take it anymore. Could i just commit suicide so i could just relieve myself from all of this stress ?? I have a huge headache right now. I don't want to live anymore because life is not treating me fair, even when i want to have an education for a better tommorow i don't have any money to pay for college ?
Should i just commit suicide because i don't have the financial support for my future ?
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YOUR ARE SO EFFIN LUCKY! don't go to college, period, if you want to be smart...read. Your'e worried about being poor, and your answer is to go to college?! you'd hate it there, trust me, rich kids galore. get a job, any job. make some money, then you'll get a girl if you want one. maybe your job will pay for you to go to school someday too. do not pay for college in order to make money, it is a terrible investment, and do not take out student loans, ever.
Explain your current situation to the financial aid. They WILL listen to you. If they are too bitchy to not give you the loan, take it up with the government. The State's JOB is to serve the people.
NEVER assume you are alone. There are thousands of people in your situation and they can get out of it by asserting themselves.
After going through uni with the funding you WILL get, your qualifications WILL get you a good job which will keep you out of debt.
As for the romance "problem", what good is a girl that judges you on how rich in material possessions you are rather than how rich you are in heart? It is a FACT that there is someone for everybody so long as you act yourself.
If nothing else, think about your parents. WHEN you get through uni, your new job might even pay enough to keep them out of debt too. Also, how much more would losing a son hurt them than losing a house? They would live the rest of their lives believing it is their fault you died, and would always be haunted by this thought. If you commit suicide, you would be killing three people, not one.
NEVER believe you are unimportant. You are the most important thing on this Earth, as is every human being.
You WILL do well if you believe in yourself. If you think this isn't working, you are not trying hard enough, and believe me you can always try harder easily.
Through the Fire and the Flames, carry on.
NEVER assume you are alone. There are thousands of people in your situation and they can get out of it by asserting themselves.
After going through uni with the funding you WILL get, your qualifications WILL get you a good job which will keep you out of debt.
As for the romance "problem", what good is a girl that judges you on how rich in material possessions you are rather than how rich you are in heart? It is a FACT that there is someone for everybody so long as you act yourself.
If nothing else, think about your parents. WHEN you get through uni, your new job might even pay enough to keep them out of debt too. Also, how much more would losing a son hurt them than losing a house? They would live the rest of their lives believing it is their fault you died, and would always be haunted by this thought. If you commit suicide, you would be killing three people, not one.
NEVER believe you are unimportant. You are the most important thing on this Earth, as is every human being.
You WILL do well if you believe in yourself. If you think this isn't working, you are not trying hard enough, and believe me you can always try harder easily.
Through the Fire and the Flames, carry on.
See a psychiatrist for help with your mood problems. Likely today he will give a prescription rather than involve you in lengthy meetings.
You haven't mentioned your school results — GPA and SAT. If they are good, you will be able to find a school that will take you, with good financial aid.
If your school results are not good, you should either go to (inexpensive) community college for a few years, or start an apprenticeship on one of the trades. Some college programs combine apprenticeship and an "Applied Science" degree.
Until you establish yourself as a financial stable potential marriage partner, you can always rent women...
You haven't mentioned your school results — GPA and SAT. If they are good, you will be able to find a school that will take you, with good financial aid.
If your school results are not good, you should either go to (inexpensive) community college for a few years, or start an apprenticeship on one of the trades. Some college programs combine apprenticeship and an "Applied Science" degree.
Until you establish yourself as a financial stable potential marriage partner, you can always rent women...