should i have sex with my boyfriend?

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Stéphanie

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me and my boyfriend have been togther a while and we really love eachother, but we are only young...some say to young. i'm 2 years younger than him and isnt 17 yet. i really want to and so dose he. what should i do?
 
Well, first off if you're a Christian/Catholic/Anglican, etc., God does say 'no sex before marriage'. I just wanted to say that in case you are a Christian/Catholic/Anglican, etc. I'm not here to offend anyone though, just saying it in case you are a believer.

Well, if you really do love him, and you're sure he loves you too (and not because of the sex) then well, do it. Only if you both agree and are comfortable with the idea. Don't ever do anything you don't want to! If you are too young (say, less than 15) then I suggest no, don't have sex. You are too young at that age, but if you're older, then, well, if you're both ready, then go for it.

Best of luck, and hope you don't make any rash decisions you'll regret! :)
 
i think that if you to truely love each other and you both want to then i think you should as long as your legal. i just turned 17 and i have been with my bf almost 6 months and i slept with him for the first time when i was a few months away from turning 17 and as long u trust him and you know he wont ake you for granted and do what you feel is right.
 
oh yes at 17 or so sex is staring down the barrels at you 2 - if you do go for all the above please use a rubber or some kind of protection bolth of you thanz all of us
 
Not yet. You're far too young. Trust me, you'll regret it. I remember when I was at school, a friend of mine had sex with her boyfriend of 9 months and straight after they had sex, he dumped her. You can do other stuff if you want to but shouldn't have sex. You may not think it's a big deal but for girls, the first time is huge and can really muck around with your emotions if you're not ready for it. There's plenty of time and if he loves you, he'll wait until you're a bit older and ready for it.
 
yeah you're so right
you're young! uhm try putting your interests to different things you might also enjoy together, enjoy youth! don't play with fire.
 
Think carefully about this. If you really Love him, sex wouldn't be your priority now. Reduce your contact alone with him that's probably the reason for the urge. Go out more have fun outside the bed room, you'll be surprised at how different your feeling might be toward the issue.
 
I'm guessing you are around 15? If not I would at least wait until then.

Just make sure you use protection- condoms or go on the pill.

Also, don't forget there are lots of other 'things' you can do...enjoy doing those...maybe sex can wait.
 
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