Should I have sex with him?

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Sex is taking the relationship to a higher level. Usually, one person will form a more emotional connection to the person they had sex with. If the other person involved doesn't reciprocate these feelings, you could end up pushing them away. Wait to have sex and see how the relationship goes first. It's usually the people involved that ruin a relationship.
 
I've known this guy for three years. And we recently started dating. I really want to have sex, but I heard that sex ruins relationships, so I would be willing to wait if that was true. If it does ruin relationships, why? Because the chase is over or something? And what about doing everything BUT sex...?

FYI: Neither of us are virgins
 
You've known him for three years. You two should have built up a trusting, mature relationship by now where you both can be comfortable and cool with each other even if something did end up going wrong. I think you should if you think you're ready to do it with him like you said you want to.
 
Hmmm, well you 2 knew each other for 3 years, still I would say to wait for a while since you two are just getting into a real relationship. Make sure you both are ready for a sexual relationship. I dont think sex really have to ruin a relationship. Just make sure you both are "Sexually compatable"(if that makes any sence..lol) But i really think you should wait. Make sure you know how he is as a boyfriend.I know you 2 known each other for 3 years, but you also wasnt going out with him over them 3 years lol...But if its something you really wanna do, then you should talk to him and make sure he is ready for that too=) I hoped I help You...
 
you can just wait for it because sometime men can be pain in the ass if you know what i mean ,so don't ruins your relationships with thinking of sex can wait everything is up to you
 
As I have said to others if it was the rit-ght time for you to have sex with him the you wouldn't be here asking us for advice.But with the other part of your question.If you get in to sex to fast with some one in a relationship then it ends up being about sex more than otherwise.
 
nah.... don't waist your time on having sex with someone you won't be spending the rest of your life.

not a virgin? so you have sleep with someone who doesn't even really care for you, to the point that he will be with you in sickness and in health.
 
my past relationships, i learned that sex only ruins relationships when you start off having sex before you really know each other and then base your relationship on sex.. hope that helped some
 
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