Should I have sex right now, Im 14?

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Drop DEaD MIchelle

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Okay so this guy he likes me asked me if I wanted to loose my virginity to him but im not sure.He said he was gonna buy some condoms but i what should i do.I mean i wanna wait but should I?
 
I would have to say no dude, sex is a really complex emotional experience, going through it at your young age could really damage how you you feel about sex for the rest of your life, or even worse could damage your ability to handle simple social situations, all though people around you seem to start doing it, it is best to wait.
And if you feel at any point that people think your not cool because you haven, you can always lie and say you did.
Even at 17 i can look at my peers and tell who became sexually active too young.
 
you don't even know him you just like him. you shouldn't have sex just because you can right now. you should have sex when you know you are ready and you find the guy you want to be with for the rest of your life.
 
ok well the answer to that should be as plain as the nose on your face...if you have ANY doubts you should NOT have sex...
And im not just knocking on your age. I was 14 when i lost my virginity...and it was basically the same scenario....now i didnt end up pregnant or emotionally hurt but i sort fo regret it. If you dont think you are 100% sure you want to, just dont. Wait until you find someone that you are totally comfortable and someone you fell safe with. and it wouldnt hurt if you love this person either. I think you should wait
 
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