So I broke it off with my ex-girlfriend about a month and a half ago, which was a healthy, but hard, decision for me to make. She and I are both involved in a certain sport, but are on different leagues. When we were together, our events always overlapped, so I was never able to see her play, but we would always talk about how I would finally be able to see her play after my season was over, which it now is. Her next game is coming up later this month and I'm not sure if I should go or not.
It's a little complicated because after the breakup we have run into each other a few different times, and have continued to communicate some through text and facebook also(probably a poor idea). Anyway, last week I saw her and she asked if I was still planning on watching her play at her next event, which I said I was. She seemed really excited and happy about that, but now I'm not sure if I should go. I do feel obligated to go, but me continuing to see her and do things like this is making it hard for me to move on completely. Last week when I saw her we talked quite a bit and she made a comment to me about wanting to remain friends, but I'm not sure if I can handle going to watch her play, especially since she has gone back to her ex who she was with before me (who will likely be there).
I feel like it would be best for me to not go, to help myself move on from her. But I feel like I did give my word to go, and that it would hurt her if I don't show up. So, what do you suggest I do? If I was completely over her I don't think it would be a problem for me to go, but I am not.
It's a little complicated because after the breakup we have run into each other a few different times, and have continued to communicate some through text and facebook also(probably a poor idea). Anyway, last week I saw her and she asked if I was still planning on watching her play at her next event, which I said I was. She seemed really excited and happy about that, but now I'm not sure if I should go. I do feel obligated to go, but me continuing to see her and do things like this is making it hard for me to move on completely. Last week when I saw her we talked quite a bit and she made a comment to me about wanting to remain friends, but I'm not sure if I can handle going to watch her play, especially since she has gone back to her ex who she was with before me (who will likely be there).
I feel like it would be best for me to not go, to help myself move on from her. But I feel like I did give my word to go, and that it would hurt her if I don't show up. So, what do you suggest I do? If I was completely over her I don't think it would be a problem for me to go, but I am not.