I'm usually not the kind of guy who squirms in his seat, nervous, when the pretty girl walks by.
But this girl, who is beautiful, is extremely unapproachable, shy, and weird. To make it odder, she has a very b**tchy expression on her face usually. However, I saw her at the convenient store today and she was very pleasant to a bum who was collecting money outside the door.
I have 100% confidence that, on some other occasion, I could easily approach her, sit next to her, and strike up a conversation. The trouble with tonight is that she's sitting far away from me at the library. Well....not that far but in a different area. I don't want to walk over to where she is and make some grand gesture. The trouble is that the semester is almost over.
BUT she's at the library until very late every night. The voice in my head is saying "WAIT" because I'd hate to blow it with a grand gesture tonight.
I'd rather just walk up to her when she's already at the library, before I arrive. Then I can sit next to her without it being a big deal. I obviously can't go and sit next to her now 'cause that would require changing seats...which is creepy. Walking up to her and making a big gesture is also creepy.
In other words, when I break the ice with this girl , I want it to seem NATURAL.
Nobody has the balls to talk to her, it seems.
She's a sexy loner at a lame university.
Should I walk over and talk to her now or wait until I have a better chance?
Oh, yeah. And If I do talk, what the hell do I say?
Just introduce myself?
That's pretty weird and random.
But this girl, who is beautiful, is extremely unapproachable, shy, and weird. To make it odder, she has a very b**tchy expression on her face usually. However, I saw her at the convenient store today and she was very pleasant to a bum who was collecting money outside the door.
I have 100% confidence that, on some other occasion, I could easily approach her, sit next to her, and strike up a conversation. The trouble with tonight is that she's sitting far away from me at the library. Well....not that far but in a different area. I don't want to walk over to where she is and make some grand gesture. The trouble is that the semester is almost over.
BUT she's at the library until very late every night. The voice in my head is saying "WAIT" because I'd hate to blow it with a grand gesture tonight.
I'd rather just walk up to her when she's already at the library, before I arrive. Then I can sit next to her without it being a big deal. I obviously can't go and sit next to her now 'cause that would require changing seats...which is creepy. Walking up to her and making a big gesture is also creepy.
In other words, when I break the ice with this girl , I want it to seem NATURAL.
Nobody has the balls to talk to her, it seems.
She's a sexy loner at a lame university.
Should I walk over and talk to her now or wait until I have a better chance?
Oh, yeah. And If I do talk, what the hell do I say?
Just introduce myself?
That's pretty weird and random.