I am 19 years old and i have been with me boyfriend for a while now and he is not going in the service he has his son and my step son to look after its just me going in..and we are confused about getting married before i go to boot camp or after? every ones been saying to get married before because he will go where i do! except when i get deployed..i am not nerves about going in at all cause this is what i want to do with my life! the only thing im worried about his losing the love of my life! im just confused i want him to be where ever i am stationed at and so does he!