Should I even bother trying to talk to him now after all that happened?

BonCerise

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I am trying to simplify this for you:

I had this friends who is a boy, I had a bit of a crush on him but I'm friends with his girlfriend.

I heard from friends he thought I was hot, and he was always really complimentary to me.

He was always saying about us being best friends, meeting up and stuff. He said he cared about me, didn't want to see me upset. Blah blah, bullshit really :)

He started getting REALLY flirty, like when I saw him when he wasn't with his girlfriend he'd be holding my hand and hugging me and putting his arm around me, being really cheeky and teasing me. He invited me to 'share a bed' with him at a party I was going too, and invited me round his.

My friend and I got suspicious, we found out he'd been trying the same things with other girls. We told his girlfriend because we knew it was wrong. She got really mad at him. But the two of them have been through this before, she forgave him like always, but only after one hell of a fight.

I got annoyed at him myself. Mainly because he said to me he was going off his girlfriend while he was flirting with me, but the next day after we told on him, he was going on and on about how he'd be suicidal without her. I told him if he didn't want to lose her he should keep it in his pants and stop flirting with everything with a pulse. He tried to make me feel guilty but I told him to get lost.

He's denied EVERYTHING, blaming it on his friends. I do get the urge to hit him when I see him with his girlfriend knowing what a horrible person he is. But at the same time I want to talk things out with him, I hate being angry at people. I tried texting him once or twice, no reply. He is deliberately ignoring me. I'm wondering is it worth trying to patch things up? You know just say we're not friends, we're sorry for what happened and leave it at that instead of not talking and making it really akward when we see each other. What to do?
 
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