Karly Henriquez
New member
Ok, so to make the story short I am a 24 year old college graduate with a good job, raised as a roman catholic, believe in God. My guy friend who is 25 years old college graduate and no job when out for a couple of months during high school (it was all innocent, he never made a move, extremely shy). About a year an half ago we reconnected and we started hanging out, going to movies, dinner, coffee, museums, beach, roller blading etc...He's is a NICE/SHY respectful (Christian) doesn't attend mass every single time but does believe in God, family orientate, sweet, calm, doesnt drink, a gentlemen, treats me well always goes out of his way. I have developed feelings for him and I told him how i felt, about 11 months ago, and he said he wanted to be financially stable, and that and the future we can have something. I know I can see my self with him and i have deeper feelings for him, but don't want to force anything, the only physical contact we have had is hugs, kisses on the cheek, mutual massages, nibbling/biting slightly on each others ear, i intertwine my arm on his arm (and he doesn't pull back) he offers his jacket when am cold, we cuddle. Althought, i always have to be the one saying "oh we should go out to etc..." We talk about marriage and kids etc... every time i go out he tells me to "Be good and behave" I feel that I should bring up that i have feelings for him and or kiss him, but what we have its so nice, we text 24/7. I wake up to good morning text if he falls asleep first, we text all day everyday. We have pet names for each other and he tells me that he is shy but not with me, that he can text me all day and night. When we go out he tends to pay or i pay or we split, but, he doesn't like me paying, he told me that he doesn't want me to think that he's "taking advantage". I told him not to hurt me, and he responded by telling me that he wont hurt me. Lately i been feeling like he's pulling away via text like he doesn't care anymore, maybe am just really into him, i have asked him if me texting him bothers him and he has said not at all, he can text with me all day everyday, but for some reason i been getting that gut feeling that maybe he has other priorities. I just think i have fallen for him and well get my heart broken. Please help.