should i confess or should i not?

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well i know the question i asked is pretty lame however this is pretty serious question and i don't know what else to do but i like this girl and she has a fiance i kno i should just back off and i know she isn't the one for me but i just can't get her out of my mind i mean me and her have a good if not great relationship she laugh at all my jokes no matter how dumb they may seem to be and i'm pretty sure everytime i flirt with her she always flirts back. but one day they broke up she cried of coarse and my heart pounded when she chose me to cry on and then i thought about giving her space like a week or 2 before i should confess but not even a day later she got back him with i don't know what to do should i or should i not confess?

did i mention shes seventeen!!! yes shes 17 i kno and mostly everybody in my school knows its wrong but her parents don't care and its her first real boyfriend and the marriage is real its gonna be in the summer i know i'm not going because everytime i see her talking on the phone or sitting by him my whole day no matter what even if i won a million dollars would just be ruined and i feel so depress and not to mention she been living a confined life just like a strict daughter of a christain family not allow to do anything with out the family right next to her and also i known her for 2 years if not 3 yeah!! 2-3 years and i now regreted about never asking her out cuz like some people i'm one big loser.

P.S her boyfriend is 20 and seemed like a decent guy i met him like once hes smart,rich, and not sure but has a good personality and they've been going out for 6 month cuz he is in a elite college everything any girl can ask for ( i guess) and i'm not nearly as good as he is
 
I think you should tell her how you feel at least she will know and if she has ever felt more then having you as a friend she'll tell you. Just tell her that you need to get it off your chest and don't want to live with this and regret that you never told her. But you won't be upset if she doesn't like you in that way at least you always want to have her as a friend. Hope that helped.
 
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