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i rang her up on thursday and said 'hey (it's (insert first name)...and she said '(first name who?)' and I hung up straight away but i knew that was stupid so when I rang back I said 'It's (Insert full name) and she went 'oh from work!?' (I apologised for the first call and blamed it on a bad connection lol) and she then sounded very excited to talk to me like we were at work and I just had a general conversation how are you, got a lot on at the weekend etc, then I asked if she was busy over the week next week and she said 'yes' but I still asked do you want to go to the movies with me next week and she said 'yes' straight away but said she'd msg me back and stuff now that she has my number. And she said she'd see me at work on saturday as I start as she finishes. She sounded very happy and surprised (in a good way) that I rang her and it didn't ask much longer and it ended with see you Saturday so although she agreed, I'm staying neutral in case it does not happen though I'm obviously hoping and in high hopes it will, it was a lot more acceptance than rejection which is good. How do you think it went?
The only reason I didn't do it face to face is because I don't have the time because the only place I can do it is at work and of course I'd be there as she finishes and theres no time there, and I'm not working next week for the time being plus I don't wanna leave it too long. Do things look like they could pick up though? Is she just making me work for it? I haven't acted nervous around her or on the phone by the way, I've kept it pretty cool. I haven't been clingy or come on too strong either, I've only talked to her face to face (no fb/text) apart from that phonecall.
Only thing is I don't want the date to be within the next few days, I'd rather have it next week as I have pretty bad sunburn at the moment and first impressions on a date imo are vital but I know I need to talk/text her fairly reguarly. Since I last saw her Saturday, I'll contact her today or tommorow (most likely tommorow) which is Wednesday, should I text or call though? With calling it's more personal but texting isn't on the spot when it comes to confirming a date.
i rang her up on thursday and said 'hey (it's (insert first name)...and she said '(first name who?)' and I hung up straight away but i knew that was stupid so when I rang back I said 'It's (Insert full name) and she went 'oh from work!?' (I apologised for the first call and blamed it on a bad connection lol) and she then sounded very excited to talk to me like we were at work and I just had a general conversation how are you, got a lot on at the weekend etc, then I asked if she was busy over the week next week and she said 'yes' but I still asked do you want to go to the movies with me next week and she said 'yes' straight away but said she'd msg me back and stuff now that she has my number. And she said she'd see me at work on saturday as I start as she finishes. She sounded very happy and surprised (in a good way) that I rang her and it didn't ask much longer and it ended with see you Saturday so although she agreed, I'm staying neutral in case it does not happen though I'm obviously hoping and in high hopes it will, it was a lot more acceptance than rejection which is good. How do you think it went?
The only reason I didn't do it face to face is because I don't have the time because the only place I can do it is at work and of course I'd be there as she finishes and theres no time there, and I'm not working next week for the time being plus I don't wanna leave it too long. Do things look like they could pick up though? Is she just making me work for it? I haven't acted nervous around her or on the phone by the way, I've kept it pretty cool. I haven't been clingy or come on too strong either, I've only talked to her face to face (no fb/text) apart from that phonecall.
Only thing is I don't want the date to be within the next few days, I'd rather have it next week as I have pretty bad sunburn at the moment and first impressions on a date imo are vital but I know I need to talk/text her fairly reguarly. Since I last saw her Saturday, I'll contact her today or tommorow (most likely tommorow) which is Wednesday, should I text or call though? With calling it's more personal but texting isn't on the spot when it comes to confirming a date.