My boyfriend, 27 years old, continues to come home around 5-6 am almost everyday. I have no idea what he does because I've caught him in numerous lies. He'll tell me that he was alone by himself wandering the streets, and then a couple of days later, I will find out from a friend that he was at a party.
When I ask him why didn't he invite me, he tells me he's worried that one of his friends will try to do something stupid. (His best friend sexually assaulted me 3 years ago.) It really bothers me that he still hangs out with that friend, although they did have a big fight over the incident. I think it's still pretty insensitive to me that he still parties with him! He even told me that it was my fault because I was dressed really "skanky" that night.
So what do you guys think, am I in the right here, or am I being to overbearing? I've asked him if he could come home a little early, like around 2 am after the bars closed (nope, there's after parties) and asked him if he could not see his perverted friend (nope, they've been friends since birth).
It would be less of a problem if he actually took me along to these parties. It's been around 3 years since I've gone to a party with him (around the time I got assaulted), and no matter how different parties I have asked if I can go, he ALWAYS says no.
When I ask him why didn't he invite me, he tells me he's worried that one of his friends will try to do something stupid. (His best friend sexually assaulted me 3 years ago.) It really bothers me that he still hangs out with that friend, although they did have a big fight over the incident. I think it's still pretty insensitive to me that he still parties with him! He even told me that it was my fault because I was dressed really "skanky" that night.
So what do you guys think, am I in the right here, or am I being to overbearing? I've asked him if he could come home a little early, like around 2 am after the bars closed (nope, there's after parties) and asked him if he could not see his perverted friend (nope, they've been friends since birth).
It would be less of a problem if he actually took me along to these parties. It's been around 3 years since I've gone to a party with him (around the time I got assaulted), and no matter how different parties I have asked if I can go, he ALWAYS says no.