Should i be worried about my 18year old girlfriend going to a 'school

[James M]

disco' style event at university? Its one of her freshers week events. We have been going out for nearly 2 years. Like you know how the girls dress up and that for this sort of thing - doesn't it have a 'vibe' for single people? Is it right for her to go? In fairness her mates have boyfriends and are going too. Opinions please

 

[Blue-Eyed Christian]

So go with her, silly! Sneak in if you have to.

 

[Rebecca W]

If you have to worry about it, you are already doomed. Either you trust her or you don't. And if you don't, the relationship is already ending.

 

[Jim Baw]

Why worry about it? If she's going to cheat on you, she's going to cheat on you, and there's nothing you can do about it, and realistically, if she did, there wouldn't be any way for you to tell. You'll drive yourself nuts being paranoid about it.

All you can do is be the best boyfriend you can be, let her have her fun, you have yours, and hope she realizes how lucky she is to have you and makes her decisions accordingly.

 

[dark eyes]

Let her enjoy her college life. It's been 2 years, and you don't trust her? Either go with her, or trust her.

 

[Know It All]

No, you don't have to worry just ensure she carries a couple (not just one) of condoms with her.

Good luck!