Should I be upset because my girlfriend won't flash me?

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I am 16, dating a 15 year old girl through the Internet. We have dated for over a year, and we have met in person twice, once last summer and once at Christmas.
For the past few months, she has told me that she has wanted to see my genitals on cam, and after calming my initial nervousness, I showed her. Then, I asked her to flash me, and she refused. Several times, she told me that she would flash me on a certain date or whatever, and each time that date came and went and she refused to flash.
Now my question is, is it right for me to be upset that she won't flash me, after I showed her myself? She can walk around in her underwear for 50 year old pervs, but she says she is too shy to flash her boyfriend. She has promised me that she would several times and then broken her promise to me.
Am I right to be upset with her over it? Am I right to feel like she doesn't appreciate me? I understand that it's her body and she can do whatever she wants with it, but surely if she's comfortable walking around in a bra and underwear while fifty 50 year old pervs watch her on cam, she should be comfortable flashing me, right? Or am I wrong?
 
ive kind of been there or close to it. maybe she promises you because she might think that you'll break up with her if she refuses. she probably wouldn't think you'd break up with her in person (what a good guy would do). the question is would you break up with her if she refused on the internet to flash you? and internet relationships aren't always healthy. how can you tell if she isn't cheating on you and she thinks it will get around to the other guy? and so your relationship is a little more healthy than before, meet up with her more often like in the weekends or after school for a date or even to hang out
 
What you did is illegal. What you want her to do is also illegal. If you encourage her to flash you then you can be charged with promoting child pornography. So can she if she encourages you to show your genitals.

My advice to you is to stop the nudity. If her parents or yours find out you both will be in big trouble.
 
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