should i be able to bring a boy camping with me?

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i am going camping on august 13th, i am 16 year old girl and i want to bring a boy with me, my mom, my step dad, my step brother, and his girlfriend are coming and my mom and step dad thinks that i am going to like have sex or something if i bring a boy but i wont do that.the boy is sleeping in a different tent than me, and i told my mom she can call me or text me when i am away from the campsite so she can know what i am doing but she still wont let me bring a boy.and i don't have many friends that are girls most of my friends are boys,i already asked all my friends that are girls if they can come and they said they cant come.so should my mom and step dad let me take a boy with me.
 
If you're 100% sure that nothing sexual will happen, or intimate, then of course you can bring him. Besides, he's in a different tent. I dunno, your mom is just being protective I suppose.
 
If you can't convince your parents that you'll act maturly and that they can trust you, this is a toughy. If you explain to them all the pros of the situation (good things) then you might be able to win them over. If that doesn't work, pretend like your friend is gay, would make everything so much easier. I don't see why they won't let you when they'll all be there?
 
YOU ASK AND PUT YOUR PARENTS IN A VERY DIFFICULT POSITION.
THEY AS PARENTS CANNOT JUST ALLOW YOU TO DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO DO OR THINGS THAT YOU THINK YOU CAN HANDLE. THEY CAN'T CONDONE THINGS THAT MAY BE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR HEALTH AND WELL BEING.
EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF THE SITUATION AND ARE BEING REALISTIC ABOUT THE REASON AND OUTCOME OF THE TRIP.
GENERALLY, THESE THINGS ARE NOT DONE WHERE BOYS ARE INVITED TO BE IN UNCHAPERONED OR UNATTENDED CLOSE PROXIMITY TO PRECIOUS AND VALUED DAUGHTERS.
IT'S LIKE IF SOMETHING HAPPENS THEY WILL BE HARSHLY JUDGED THAT AS PARENTS THEY SHOULD HAVE SAID NO AND FORESEEN THE POSSIBILITY. YOU MAY SOMEDAY KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE PUT IN THIS POSITION.
THERE ARE MANY KIDS WHO AFTER THE WORST HAS HAPPENED BLAME THEIR PARENTS AND SAY HEY I WAS JUST A KID.
SO WHAT'S A FEW MORE YEARS TO TOTAL INDEPENDENCE. IT'S NOT LIKE THE TRIP IS GOING TO CEMENT A FRIENDSHIP AND CREATE AN UNBREAKABLE BOND ETC. YOU HAVE TIME TO SOCIALIZE BUT BY THE TIME YOU HIT 18 AND HAVE AT LEAST THE HIGH SCHOOL EDUCATION YOUR CHOICES AND ANY RAMIFICATIONS OF THOSE CHOICE ARE CONSIDERED ON YOU.
PEOPLE WON'T HOLD YOUR PARENTS ACCOUNTABLE.
RESPECT IS EASILY LOST FOR A GIRL OT YOUNG WOMAN SO YOUR PARENTS ARE TRYING VERY HARD TO KEEP YOU ON A PATH THAT WILL ALLOW YOU TO CONTINUE TO FEEL POSITIVELY ABOUT YOUR LIFE AND FUTURE.
SO MANY KIDS WISH THEY HAD HEEDED PARENTAL ADVICE IT IS NOT EVEN FUNNY THE HEARTACHE AND WORRIES THEY ARE ENDURING.
DO YOU NEED TO HAVE PEOPLE KNOW YOU HAD A BOY ALONG ON THE FAMILY CAMPING TRIP? WHY? A COOL FACTOR?
IT'S NOT NECESSARY NOR WORTH CAUSING YOUR PARENTS A MINUTES WORRY.
YOU CAN CONTROL YOURSELF BUT YOU CAN NEVER BE SURE OF A FRIEND MALE OR FEMALE IF THEY HAVE ANOTHER MOTIVE.
IT ONLY TAKES A FEW MINUTES TO FIND YOURSELF IN A PREDICAMENT. MANY A GIRL AND BOY HAVE FOUND THEM SELVES SEXUALLY ASSAULTED BEFORE THEY KNEW WHAT HIT THEM. IT HAPPENS.
HE MAYBE THINKING YEAH SHE WANTS THIS, SHE SET THIS UP.
HOW CLEAR ARE YOU PREPARED TO BE WITH THIS PERSON.
DID YOU SEE THE MOVIE TEETH AND THE LOST CHILDREN OF ROCKDALE COUNTY. YOU CAN GOOGLE, LCRC IT'S A DOCUMENTARY.
GIRLS AND BOYS DO NOT THINK ALIKE.
AND NO YOU CAN'T USE YOUR STEP BRO AND HIS GIRLFRIEND AS A ANTIDOTE TO WHY NOT.
BELIEVE YOUR PARENT ONLY WANT THE BEST FOR YOU AND THEY ARE DOING THEIR BEST TO LIVE UP TO THEIR JOB AS PARENT WITH AUTHORITY BECAUSE IN THE END IT ALL FALLS BACK ON THEM ANYWAY.
THOSE KIDS THAT DRINK WRECK AND DIE OR SURVIVE WITH INJUIRIES IT IS THE PARENT THAT PICKS UP THE PIECES.
THOSE UNWANTED AND UNINTENDED PREGNANCY TILL THOSE KID HIT 18 , GET JOBS ETC. IT IS THE PARENT EVERYONE LOOKS TO FIRST TO TAKE OF THEIR OWN BABY/CHILD AND THE NEW GRANDCHILD.
SO YES THEY SAY NO.
YOU ARE SO LUCKY.
WILL YOUR OWN CHILD BE SO LUCKY ONE DAY TO BE BLESSED WITH A PARENT WHO CAN SAY NO.
CAMPING IS FUN BUT I ALWAYS BLEW UP FROM INSECT BITES BUT I loved it.
PEACE BE WITH YOU.
 
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