I'm 27 just lost my virginity, but the sex was not doing it for me.It was very painful,quite messy and not at all enjoyable cause it hurt so damn much.He tried everything to get me to come.He was shocked, cause I did not tell him that I was a virgin.
I have just had one sexual experience and from this I gathered that I did not feel connected to him in coitus. The kicker is that I am dying of curiousity.I have hinted that I would be interested in doing that again.
I want to know what its like without the hurt, should I ask him to do that again? Or should I just let it slide?