Me and a friend were discussing a situation where a lady had an affair for five years with a married man who's wife couldn't have kids. After she got pregnant, the man wanted her to have an abortion, but she refused. He told her he wanted nothing to do with her anymore or the kids if she chose to have them. She wound up with twins and the man reinforced that he didn't want anything to do with the babies, even though they had birth complications. She wound up sending papers to his house for child support, and the wife was devastated, having known nothing about the affair until then. Do you think the mistress should have kept it a secret in spite of the children to not hurt the wife? PS: I don't know the lady, but I thought the story was interesting, and I just want to know how other people think about this situation. Thanks.