Should a girl tell a guy she's a virgin when they start dating? I thought you

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It's none of his business until things reach the point where you are preparing to have sex. Then he needs to know because his enthusiasm may be a little over the top for a lady's first time.

If you live in Afghanistan, however, he needs to know so he or his family won't be tempted to kill you.
 
Guys will date girls who are virgins more than girls who have milage on them because virgins are more respectable and trustworthy.

So, yes, tell him if it comes up in conversation.
 
It's not something you should just bring up out of no where cause you feel like you should tell him. The only way you should tell him is if it is brought up or if you two are getting serious and are about to go all the way, then you may just want to tell him that this is your first time. But it typically isn't dinner conversation or anything. But any good guy would prefer a virgin over a girl who's been with 10 other guys. So don't feel embarassed about it, and don't bring it up unless you face one of the two situations above.
 
Usually it doesn't come up until they start to get serious and maybe think about having sex. But it's their choice.
 
Unless the topic comes up, don't just put yourself out there. If its a serious relationship, then of coarse the topic has to come up sometime, and when it does, just be honest with him. The worst thing to do is start a relationship off with a lie.
 
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